ASK ANT Q&A 16/12/16

Another week gone fast!

Friday is ASK ANT time so let's dig in to fixing.....


> Overambitious goal setting

> Reaching for the biscuit tin at work way too often!

 

Q:

I tend to reach for the biscuit tin in work when i get super stressed or when my kiss ass supervisor stresses me out ... how do i stop myself doing this as ive done it for so long it's like an automatic reaction?

A:

If it's not the mindset we need to dig into, which I answered last week (http://rawstrength.co.uk/raw-strength-gym/ask-ant-qa-9121612122016

THEN we gotta look at a few simple habit tweaks.

What I find helps many of my clients is first identifying the unconscious bad habits.

That's literally step one to a great body transformation, identify how you're holding yourself back

SO well done for even NOTICING that you've got this bad habit.

Being aware of it is a great start

To go a step further and fix this we gotta look at two things:

1) what is causing your willpower to be at rock bottom?

2) what GOOD habit can we replace this habit with?

For example:

If you're undereating, skipping breakfast, taking longer than 4 hours between meals

Then your blood sugar levels are gonna be really low

This leads to 'phantom hunger' where your body is begging you to eat

AND craving sugar to bring the blood sugar up

This makes you feel super hungry, sleepy, de-motivated and let's be honest, emotional and grumpy too

....and your supervisor at work may be an arsehole because of the VERY same thing!

Anyway, you then reach for the biscuits after being tipped over the edge.

You know what? It's understandable. Don't blame you at all.

But let's set your day up so you don't let your body get to this point in the first place.

> eat protein and fat based snacks every 2-4 hours

Things like beef jerky, almonds, boiled eggs, roast beef slices, carrots and hummous 

eating things like that whilst at work keeps your body at an even energy level

Couple that with good sleep, 6-8 hours most nights in the week (and catching up on the weekends if you dip below this), then you won't feel emotional and crave sugar.

Now let's say you nail this but STILL want a biscuit...

Well then let's replace that habit with reaching for something clean and protein/fat based...

...oh wait...we already did that with the snacks every 2-4 hours.

Job Done.

Two birds with one stone.

:)

 

Q: 

What about ambition and ability? When your ambition is vastly greater than your ability. Not being able to achieve that which your peers are achieving is a great demoraliser (might not be an actual word) how do you keep picking yourself back up from a failure to achieve. 

A:

I feel really well placed to answer this

At 5'10" and always around 12 stone yet playing rugby my whole life I'm used to feeling like the smallest guy in the room

So I made up for this by lifting the most weight in the gym.

Really worked hard on building muscle and eating right

And that led me down the path of becoming a strength and conditioning coach.

The important thing about this?

I realised I was never gonna be 6'5" and 17 stone

Even though I desparately wanted that

Just wasn't in my genes.

Now, once we've accepted that, goal setting becomes easier and more WHOLESOME (if that makes sense!) because now it's about you vs YOU.

You must accept these facts:

1) you can't change your genes

2) you have the ability to improve your current strength and muscle levels

Right now it sounds like you are comparing yourself to the impossible and then presuming that you don't have the ability to improve.

So, obviously this is not a quick fix it's years of acceptance, dark nights crying in the bath (just kidding) and realising that you ain't gonna be Arnie.

But what can you do when setting goals?

> compare your strength:bodyweight ratio with other people

Let's say you deadlift 160kg and weigh 70kg

that is 2.28x bodyweight

Compare that to someone who weights 100kg

They'd have to deadlift 228kg just to be EQUAL with you

Starts to look a lot better doesn't it :)

Remember a lot of individual sports have weight classes for this exact reason: it's FAIR.

Right now you're being unfair to yourself.


> set your goals based on yourself

Again, using the above example, you deadlift 160kg

Let's add 20kg to that, so your goal is now to lift 180kg

it is NOT to look at Big John in the corner who deadlifts 230kg and comparing yourself

Then setting your goal to beat him!


So, not an easy topic but again, I've been through this myself and you'll actually end up progressing faster when you think 'fuck it' I'm not gonna compete with anyone but ME.

Just to sum up:


1) you can't change your genes

2) you have the ability to improve your current strength and muscle levels

3) compare your strength:bodyweight ratio with other people

4) set your goals based on yourself


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Speak Soon

Ant

Anthony Shaw

Head Coach
Raw Strength Gym, Warrington


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